Some people say, "the big things in life are the ones that matter", some say "the little things in life are the ones that matter".
As for me.. The big things in life are those little things, those are the things that matter for me.
I don't think I ever say it before but for me, I appreciate all the little things that I did/do/will do w/ those people I care about more than all the big things I did/do/will do w/ others.
Say hanging out, doing nothing n just lazying around watching whatever and a simple dinner w/ people I actually care about is more important to me than going out to a fancy dinner for free with someone I couldn't care less.
Another example, hanging out, playing video games w/ a friend I care n enjoy spending time w/ versus going to say paintball-ing (i've been wanting to go, btw!) somewhere w/ random people. I mean yeah! I would love to go paintball-ing. But no, I would rather play video games if that means I get to hangout w/ people I care about.
Sometimes we feel like we need to give in to the pressure of hanging out w/ the big group, the "awesome", glamorous, fancy people. But truth be told, they don't matter! The ones that matter are those people maybe just a few of them and maybe they are not as fancy, but we love them because they are who they are and because around them we are who we are. They matter way more than those fancy people.
I honestly am grateful and glad to have those people whom I can enjoy spending my time with, with no drama or craziness. =D
Xo for now,
-Na-
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