Sunday, January 20, 2013

Am I Overprotective?

So I just heard a very very disturbing story about someone that I really care about.
Apparently when she was younger, she was sexually harassed by a boy. He touched her boobs and tried to touch her part down there! I was FURIOUS!!!!!! WTF! Problem is she didn't tell anybody until 2 years later and she didn't tell me till now!
If I had known the same day it happened, I'm not even joking, that boy would've fly across the room. For his own good, he better not comes back ever again! I don't even care if he is the younger brother of this other girl I know ex-boyfriend. No matter who he is related to, it doesn't matter, it won't help with the fact that he hurt someone that I really care about.
Seriously that boy should never ever step his foot there ever again!

Now, cause of that, I suddenly thought, "am I overprotective to those people I really care about?".
Actually, not too long ago, someone said something along the line "boy, you are really too protective over (insert name here)!" Mind you that person was talking about a guy that is bigger than me that wouldn't need my protection. I just didn't/don't want him to get hurt because of some stupid girls' issues!
So boys and girls, while I'm being nice, please DO NOT play w/ those people I care about feelings! Don't ever intentionally try hurt them! First of all, it would make you an A@#$@#hole, 2nd of all, you might have to deal w/ me. =)
For me, it's normal to be protective to those people I care about but I'm never overprotective. I never prohibited those people I care about from doing something just because I'm afraid for them to get hurt. Nah, none of that, because I also believe in 'sometimes you need to learn from mistakes'. But anyway, what I do is protect them from "outside strange objects" that might hurt them.

Thinking back, this started since I was 7 years old! Ha! yeah, I know I started really young! LOL! But anyway, I was known to beat up boys that would bother me when I was younger and one day, some boys bothered one of my girl friends and guess what I did?! yup! I beat them up! HAHAHA! oh what fun. Funny thing tho, that girl n I were known/called as 2 dolls. She was Indian dolls, I was Japanese doll. LOL! I didn't live up to that name, huh? since Japanese doll is suppose to be all gentle-well I think it's gentle looking. But, ooppzzies, I beat up boys! lol!
Even my aunt wanted me to take care of my younger cousin that's a boy n was slightly bigger than me! what in the world?!!? -_- 
Of course the nick name changed when that series Xena, the warrior princess, was well known. Yup, you guess it, I was called Xena for the longest time. ROFL! But of course I was always chosen to be the leader of the class I was in. FUN!
Actually, I was so well known in beating up boys that the principal that was a nun called me up to her office and sat me down to talk about this "issues". At the end of the day, she wanted me to stop beating up boys, instead she wants me to tell her and the teachers.
I used this to my advantage, every time.. not kidding every time a boy bothered me in class I would be like "Ma'am!! he is bothering me!!", the boy would get so scared, it's fun! HAHAHA... yeah, I was mischievous. TEEHEE!

One day tho, the nun, I think wanted me to be a lil gentle or maybe she saw me as a person that will be able to protect that she chose me as one of the 'little Doctor' to help take care of others. Yup, I was a "doctor" once. We wore the coat and all that! we were even sworn and got the diploma and what not. HAHA. 

Anyway, this is getting off topic and random! LOL!

Back on the topic, I seriously think I'm not overprotective. I think it's normal that one doesn't want people that one cares about to get hurt. Don't you think so?


Xo for now,

-Na-


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