In Between..what else is new?

I feel like all my life I've been put in between people that I love and it is the hardest position to be in. All the while, I always always try my best to be the mediator and I'm still not used to it and honestly if I could, I would rather not be in this position. But hey, I know God put me here for a reason, so it's ok. :)

In my family.. well yeah, let's not even talk about that part. But it's just never end and it's the hardest position to be put in between my parents and my sibling. Truth be told tho, the only thing I can do is just eat it and rant about. I can't pick a side, ok, maybe I won't. Meh.. forget it.

Now between friends, I usually avoid it as much as possible. NO, I won't be that friend that hate my friend's hated person. See, if you are my friend and you hate A, NO, DO NOT expect me to hate A because of you. Unless there is a reasonable VALID excuse, but if it's only just because you don't like A for no apparent reason or some dramas then leave me out of it. I'll still be your friend and A's friend and if either of you have a problem w/ it, then, oh well too bad, you both don't need to be my friend. This girl don't need no drama in her life.

However, something happened just now. It may not be a big deal but it is for me. So I posted something on facebook and tagged a close friend, D on it. Later, another friend of mine, T-well we used to be so close but distance makes a difference I guess? But anyway, I still care about T.
Basically, T is one of my gay friends and no I don't care what anybody say, I care about him. To be fair, I don't care about your preference, as long as you are a good person, you treat other people right, who am I to judge based on his preference? Even God doesn't judge any of us and gay or not, he is God's children too.

So anyway, T was saying stuff about that company on my post hates gay people and he got a little heated up about it.
Now, on the other hand, my close friend, D-well I just don't want any confrontation shows up on his page is all and I dunno taint his reputation?! LOL! He probably doesn't care but I somehow do. I don't know how D's friends feel about it and all. I probably made a big deal out of nothing, but I felt like I was put in between and I had to decide what to do.
After a nice warm shower.. LOL! I decided to send a message to T and tell him that I have to delete his comments because I don't want D's page to get any heat. I said it in the nicest way possible, I even said sorry. I was kinda worried, because T is a little sensitive and I don't want him to get upset. But, guess what?! it's all good! T messaged me back and he totally understands. I guess as long as you are being honest and considerate and do everything in love, it'll all be fine, huh? =)

Well I'm glad! =)

'Be on your guard; stand firm in the faith; be courageous; be strong. Do everything in love.' ~ 1 Corinthians 16:13-14


Xo for now,

-Na-